Divorced father of 2, all parties live in Washington. As a part of our agreement, I am responsible for a portion of co-pays, deductibles and non-covered expenses. For third year, ex-spouse has delivered months of expenses after 4/15. This has forced me to lose pre-tax health care set asides and from deducting on taxes, unless I want to re-file. Additionally, for third time, she has demanded I pay up in 30 days or has threatened to turn me into State (has done so twice, each time with no penalty from State).